A2Encontros in the Sheet of S.PAULO
Personal, looks ours pretty Goddess Karine Koller in the matter, that success! We are receiving connections and phone calls of men that it saw in the Newspaper and are going to know her, a luxury even!
It looks that the matter was writing for that the women learn how that who want a ready man, should get ready its!
In the too groups of instruction, difference does not pass from 10%, second you count them deeds in the Pnad, of the IBGE
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The marriage market is favorable nothing for the women of high schooling. At least for those that do not give up the marriage and insist on find barely instruction same level men.
Tabulations made to request of the Sheet by the demógrafos Suzana Cavenaghi and José Eustáquio Alves, of the Ence (National School of Statistical Sciences of the IBGE), show that the number of women with upper level “livres” super in 54% the of men in the same situation.
They are 800 thousand women to more single, widowed or separated and that do not they live with a spouse. In the too groups of instruction, the difference does not pass from 10%, second you count them deeds in the National Research by Sample of Residences of 2009, of the IBGE.
The women, in that case, feel the consequence of his success, by will have advanced more than the men in the last 30 years in the education. In 1981, the male adult population with university formation was 35% bigger. But, to the end of the past decade, they already exceeded them in 27%.
Second Eduardo Rio net weight, demógrafo of the Center of Development and Regional Planning of the UFMG, that reversion of the educational hiatus already affects the market of marriage, calling into question the traditional model of woman marry bigger or equal man of instruction.
Of fact, study made by Aretha Lopez you Will Sound, of the Ence, sample that today already is more common find couples in that the woman is more educated than the inverse one. In case of of the with university formation, 52% already live with a spouse less educated.
“Em many countries of the Europe, marry is not so fundamental. The woman can invest in the career and do not feel unfortunate by be single woman. But, in Brazil, do not have husband still is seen like social failure”, affirms anthropologist Mirian Goldenberg.
She says that there is the aggravating circumstance of the women culturally will have been educated it find an educated and rich, older partner.
“Para those that arrived to the top, does not advance to look alone upward. If the marriage will go so important, will have that look also below”, says anthropologist.
For the therapist of family Tai Castilho, different schooling can be an element of tension. That because some men handle evil with the fact of will not be the main supplier of home, while the women that qualify earn more autonomy and tendem it accept except a submissive paper.
“É question of matter says”, says single 5 years ago. She is going to find “similar compatible”
of São PauloSingle woman five years ago, to ophthalmologist Karine Koller, 35, decided itself inscribe in auma agency of marriages in search of “um similar compatible, and not a complementary opposite”.
The imbalance between men and free women that possess graduation becomes difficult the task, but Karine does not give up someone that have deed the faculty.
“Não is prejudice, is a question of matter, of compatibilization of ideas. In the agency, 93% of the people have graduation. The majority is what the owner of the A2Encontros, Cláudya Toledo, flame of “mulher head”: studied too, and forgot his female side.
“Fiquei in the male world of the work. I had of me tidy, alone did that practical thing of pass in the parlor and leave a person do a brush”, affirms Karine.
For it recuperate the femininity, to medical watched the lectures, learned how to technical of makeup based in sacred Indian paintings and concepts of chacras for earn harmonization.
Already it had meetings with similar, but lacked to part of the compatible one: so far, “não rolled chemistry”.
To journalist Fernanda Paiva, 33, is in the same situation: appealed to the site of relationships ParPerfeito in search of a future husband that have at least university formation.
“A woman that has level of schooling more elevated does not itself satisfy with any thing”, says.
She already was of another side: married to the 20 years, when had barely the secondary education and there was offers more in the market. It went to college after the divorce and, now, says that is difíci find someone to the height.
For the president of the site, Claudio Gandelman, the women are going to give up some demands for have success in the relationship. “Realmente does not give for be perfect”.
