Head of man

Do not they lack women, but those male copy are not going to find the goddess of the dreams

The men of the down the pictures are unmarried people does time, although guarantee that candidates to the vacancy of girlfriend do not lack. They value the liberty, like to do what leads to the tile without will be necessary give satisfaction to nobody. But his routines have nothing of amazing: sit at home of talk for the air, go to a museum for see some exquisite exposition or sit down in a tavern with the friends for speak stupidity. They give up that life, they say, alone itself a day will find to “mulher ideal”.

While that female figure idealized not his cross roads, go having his little cases. Many women exist that are in the same situation, or be, alone give up the solteirice itself really be worth hardly. The annual hoist carried out by the Ibope Media, the Target Group Index, sample that the unmarried people (both the sexes) represent 34% of the population of the state native of São Paulo. They and they are standing of equality: each group represents exact 50%. The age group that concentrates more available people is to of 18 to 24 years (39%), followed by the of 25 to 34 years (33%). The majority belongs to the classes C (43%) and AB (39%).

A hoist made by the agency of marriages A2 Meetings, between 300 men registered, of 30 to 45 years, with yield over 4 thousand real, verifies that the women do not be more holders of the “tolerância zero and maximum demand”. Today, they hinder with them also in that requirement.

Second records of the agency, in 2004, for each 10 compatible women with the profiles of clients of the male sex, the candidate accepted to know 4 female profiles selected. And the women said “sim” for 8 of the 10 appropriate male profiles. This year, the acceptance of both the sexes fell for 2, sealing, like this, a tie.

To the eves of the Day of the Boyfriends (12 of June), we unite a small sample of those you will be, with your idiosyncrasies and desires (present or future) of seal a relation “especial”. Vejam alone the complaints and aspirations of them.

AS it UNDERSTAND THE UNMARRIED PEOPLE

Without it make use of the clichés that flood the publications of autoajuda, the emeritus professor of Psychology of the University of the State of the Califórnia, Herb Goldberg, explains the dynamics of kind that involve the loving behavior in the book (Publisher BestSeller, R$ 40). Read the interview that the author granted for email.

You speak that the men are living a moment critic, therefore your “isolamento personal” and to “dependência of the women” are bigger than never. Why?

The men are very dependent of the women for will fill personal gaps that they are not going to administer alone. Alone that, today, many women are acting as they and are assuming functions that would fit them. That puts them with the need despaired of will rescue their own paper.

But by that the unmarried people say that are not going to give up its liberty?

They love the liberty, but alone when already have a woman. The reality is that, when are unmarried people, desire a lot find a woman for fill its personal life.

It seeks by the “mulher perfect” is not an excuse for will stay alone?

It is the arrogance of the male. They need a perfect woman for will feed their ego, in particular before the others men that compete with them. Want a woman as trophy, so that reflect positively for its image.

It is for that motive that the charm of the first meetings disappears quickly?

The majority of the women is accommodated and does everything for please to the man, believing that are going to act like this for will be loved. The men are initially attracted by the physicist, but because of that posture go to irk of them, because they need high indices of challenges and stimuli, and that does not happen when the alone woman want give please.

As it explain certain aversion of many of them to the marriage?

The majority of the men does not feel need of marry. They know that, nearly always, the marriage put an end the pleasure of the romance. And in the traditional marriages, if the woman decide to finish the relation, the husband loses home, the access to the infants and they are always accused of will not be dependable, of will be workaholics and without intimate abilities. Consequently, more women than men seek the marriage, to because many of them suffer pressure of the family, of the society and worry about the “relógio biological”. While to solteirice male is sight with tranquilidade, is aching for the woman to be labeled of single woman.

Everything what the Men do not Understand: Women, Relationship, Love

Head of man

Do not they lack women, but those male copy are not going to find the goddess of the dreams

The men of the down the pictures are unmarried people does time, although guarantee that candidates to the vacancy of girlfriend do not lack. They value the liberty, like to do what leads to the tile without will be necessary give satisfaction to nobody. But his routines have nothing of amazing: sit at home of talk for the air, go to a museum for see some exquisite exposition or sit down in a tavern with the friends for speak stupidity. They give up that life, they say, alone itself a day will find to “mulher ideal”.

While that female figure idealized not his cross roads, go having his little cases. Many women exist that are in the same situation, or be, alone give up the solteirice itself really be worth hardly. The annual hoist carried out by the Ibope Media, the Target Group Index, sample that the unmarried people (both the sexes) represent 34% of the population of the state native of São Paulo. They and they are standing of equality: each group represents exact 50%. The age group that concentrates more available people is to of 18 to 24 years (39%), followed by the of 25 to 34 years (33%). The majority belongs to the classes C (43%) and AB (39%).

A hoist made by the agency of marriages A2 Meetings, between 300 men registered, of 30 to 45 years, with yield over 4 thousand real, verifies that the women do not be more holders of the “tolerância zero and maximum demand”. Today, they hinder with them also in that requirement.

Second records of the agency, in 2004, for each 10 compatible women with the profiles of clients of the male sex, the candidate accepted to know 4 female profiles selected. And the women said “sim” for 8 of the 10 appropriate male profiles. This year, the acceptance of both the sexes fell for 2, sealing, like this, a tie.

To the eves of the Day of the Boyfriends (12 of June), we unite a small sample of those you will be, with your idiosyncrasies and desires (present or future) of seal a relation “especial”. Vejam alone the complaints and aspirations of them.

AS it UNDERSTAND THE UNMARRIED PEOPLE

Without it make use of the clichés that flood the publications of autoajuda, the emeritus professor of Psychology of the University of the State of the Califórnia, Herb Goldberg, explains the dynamics of kind that involve the loving behavior in the book (Publisher BestSeller, R$ 40). Read the interview that the author granted for email.

You speak that the men are living a moment critic, therefore your “isolamento personal” and to “dependência of the women” are bigger than never. Why?

The men are very dependent of the women for will fill personal gaps that they are not going to administer alone. Alone that, today, many women are acting as they and are assuming functions that would fit them. That puts them with the need despaired of will rescue their own paper.

But by that the unmarried people say that are not going to give up its liberty?

They love the liberty, but alone when already have a woman. The reality is that, when are unmarried people, desire a lot find a woman for fill its personal life.

It seeks by the “mulher perfect” is not an excuse for will stay alone?

It is the arrogance of the male. They need a perfect woman for will feed their ego, in particular before the others men that compete with them. Want a woman as trophy, so that reflect positively for its image.

It is for that motive that the charm of the first meetings disappears quickly?

The majority of the women is accommodated and does everything for please to the man, believing that are going to act like this for will be loved. The men are initially attracted by the physicist, but because of that posture go to irk of them, because they need high indices of challenges and stimuli, and that does not happen when the alone woman want give please.

As it explain certain aversion of many of them to the marriage?

The majority of the men does not feel need of marry. They know that, nearly always, the marriage put an end the pleasure of the romance. And in the traditional marriages, if the woman decide to finish the relation, the husband loses home, the access to the infants and they are always accused of will not be dependable, of will be workaholics and without intimate abilities. Consequently, more women than men seek the marriage, to because many of them suffer pressure of the family, of the society and worry about the “relógio biological”. While to solteirice male is sight with tranquilidade, is aching for the woman to be labeled of single woman.

Everything what the Men do not Understand: Women, Relationship, Love